Tear you down? Do you understand how discourse works? What, you wanna publish shit publicly, but be immune to criticism? How arrogant must you be, to think you should be exempt. I suppose, given the condescending nature of your article, very. Your piece doesn't further any "conversation".
It is really astonishing how you managed to say so little with so much. Everything you wrote boils down to 'tough shit, sucks to suck'. You know, it's quite ironic how, despite despite having colourful sex lives, most kinkster are utterly vacuous and derivative