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“𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐨𝐟𝐭 𝐀𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫”

He tracked mud on the floor.
I inhaled to scold… then exhaled to lead.
“Grab the mop with me.” We laughed while we cleaned.
𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐞𝐭 𝐛𝐞𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐚𝐲.
👉 𝐅𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐧 𝐦𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐬 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬.
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“𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐌𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐈 𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐳𝐞𝐝 𝐈’𝐦 𝐁𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐖𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐝”

I was complaining about traffic until my son copied me from the backseat.
Same tone. Same words.
That hit me.
𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐢𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐝𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠.
👉 𝐅𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐤 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐝𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲.
4️⃣ 𝐅𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭, 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐚𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭.
5️⃣ 𝐒𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐝.
6️⃣ 𝐏𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐨𝐧𝐞.
👉 𝐅𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦 𝐟𝐮𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐦𝐞𝐧.
“𝟔 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐆𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭 𝐃𝐚𝐝𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐑𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫”

1️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐰𝐞𝐢𝐠𝐡 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰.
2️⃣ 𝐊𝐢𝐝𝐬 𝐦𝐢𝐫𝐫𝐨𝐫 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐝𝐚𝐝 𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐟𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐮𝐫𝐞.
3️⃣ 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐞𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥.
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“𝟑 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐓𝐨 𝐒𝐚𝐲 𝐓𝐨 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐒𝐩𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐓𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲”

1️⃣ “𝐈 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐦𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨.”
2️⃣ “𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐮𝐬.”
3️⃣ “𝐋𝐞𝐭’𝐬 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨𝐧𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭.”
𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐫𝐞𝐩𝐚𝐢𝐫 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐬𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐝𝐮𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐤.
👉 𝐅𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠.
DAY 28 of 30: Dad Leadership in Action 👊
Show up today—because tomorrow comes fast. 🕰️

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𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐫 𝐑𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐋𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐧”

My teen was quiet after practice.
I asked questions. He shrugged.
Then I said nothing for a minute.
He started talking.
𝐒𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐬𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐫𝐢𝐝𝐠𝐞.
👉 𝐅𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞.
👉 𝐅𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐝𝐚𝐝 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐦𝐞𝐫.
4️⃣ 𝐒𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐰𝐚𝐥𝐤 𝐢𝐧.
5️⃣ 𝐒𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐆𝐨𝐝 𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤.
6️⃣ 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐝𝐬.
7️⃣ 𝐏𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐬𝐞 𝐨𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐥𝐲, 𝐜𝐨𝐫𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐯𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐲.
“𝟕 𝐌𝐢𝐜𝐫𝐨-𝐂𝐡𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐬 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐝”

1️⃣ 𝐋𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐝, 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐰𝐢𝐧.
2️⃣ 𝐏𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐝𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫.
3️⃣ 𝐒𝐚𝐲 “𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐤 𝐲𝐨𝐮” 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬.
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𝐂𝐚𝐥𝐦 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞 𝐟𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐯𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐦𝐞.
👉 𝐅𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐝𝐚𝐝 𝐡𝐚𝐛𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐭 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲.
“𝟑 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐓𝐨 𝐃𝐨 𝐁𝐞𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐈𝐧 𝐀𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫”

1️⃣ 𝐓𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐚 𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐥𝐞 𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡.
2️⃣ 𝐋𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧, 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦.
3️⃣ 𝐀𝐬𝐤, “𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐝𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐧𝐨𝐰?”