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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster
@slutphd.bsky.social
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Author of "Violated" and "Please Scream Quietly." Switchy rope daredevil, nascent podcaster, and rogue sociologist. MD/DMV area.
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Feb 10
Still seeking an agent to represent my erotic metafiction novel! The pitch: two queer kinky poly erotica writers in a long distance relationship push the limits of conventional love, sex, and genre. #amquerying #literaryagent #writingcommunity
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · 22d
New podcast episode up on how to not drop at conventions!
How to Manage Your Energy at Conventions | Podcast Episode on RSS.com
One of the most common questions people ask me is "how do you go to so many kink conventions without getting completely exhausted?" And my answer is always: it's definitely not a talent, it's a very c...
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Sep 3
New podcast episode is up! Part 1 of a two part conversation with ElsieXO and Jordan about keeping it hot in long term polyamorous kinky cohabiting relationships!
Keeping It Hot in Long-Term Poly Cohabiting Relationships, Part 1--with ElsieXO and Jordan | Podcast Episode on RSS.com
TO BE CONTINUED (this episode cuts off in the middle of a conversation)In Part 1 of this two-part episode, Julie chats with her peeps ElsieXO and Jordan to try to uncover the secrets of keeping sex an...
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Aug 13
New podcast episode is up! Where's the Line Between BDSM and Self-Harm?

#nssi #selfharm #psychology #sociology
Where's the Line Between BDSM and Self-Harm?--with Cait and Siren | Podcast Episode on RSS.com
Trigger warnings: mental health, eating disordersIn this episode, Julie tackles a subject few have been brave enough to ask: what's the real difference between BDSM and non-suicidal self-injury (NSSI,...
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Jul 31
New podcast episode is up! #bdsm #kinklife #dominanceandsubmission #bdsmlifestyle
Dominance/submission in Fantasy versus Reality | Podcast Episode on RSS.com
In this episode, Julie and her sub Artifiction discuss some of the challenges of moving from Dominant/submissive desires to actually translating those desires to relationships that can be manifested i...
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Jul 18
Him: "there's been a big pivot in my life, out of hacking and into rope"
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Jul 18
Currently waiting for my Southwest flight. Gate agents: please please give us your carryons to check free of charge. Everyone: fuck you, give us our free checked bags back.
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Jul 16
New podcast episode is up! #bdsm #kink #bdsmlifestyle
On Co-Topping, with SugarAndPoison | Podcast Episode on RSS.com
In this episode, Julie and her co-top SugarAndPoison break down some the pleasures and cautionary tales of co-topping. While recounting some of their favorite scenes together, they discuss things to b...
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Jul 2
New podcast episode is a buffet of tidbits about #bisexual and #polyamorous figures from history #lgbthistory #queerhistory

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Bi + Poly Figures From History | Podcast Episode on RSS.com
This episode provides a very brief survey of some interesting and occasionally significant figures from bisexual and polyamorous history, primarily targeting people who were born in the nineteenth cen...
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Jun 23
....that said, I'll probably write that way myself because... It's convenient
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Jun 23
As someone who went to graduate school to study the sociology of birth control, I always think it's hilarious when romantasy novels exist in feudal societies where people can freely and reliably control their pregnancies 🤣🤣🤣
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Jun 18
New podcast episode is up! rss.com/podcasts/slu...

#sociology #sexualassault #law #gender
Part 2: Violated: Chatting about Our Book with Remy Green | Podcast Episode on RSS.com
This episode is a continuation of the previous one where Julie and Remy discuss their book, Violated: Sexual Consent and Assault in the 21st Century (with obvious trigger warnings for discussion of se...
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Jun 8
I very much miss having you in my ropes 😭😘
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Jun 8
Bisexuals cover ourselves in rainbows for Pride because we're desperately trying to compensate for how much gay sex we're not having 😭😭😭🏳️‍🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈🌈
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Jun 4
New podcast episode is up!
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#sociology #sexualassault #gender #legalsociology
Violated: Chatting about Our Book with Remy Green, Part 1 | Podcast Episode on RSS.com
Picking up from an earlier episode where Julie read the first chapter of Violated, Julie (a sociologist) and Remy (a lawyer) discuss their book, Violated: Sexual Consent and Assault in the 21st Centur...
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · May 27
I told Boyfriend that I was going to consult a pet psychic for my cats. He sputtered at me indignantly, then immediately created a note on his phone for "easy ways to make money with AI if engineering falls through" 😂😂😂
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · May 21
New podcast episode is up! #sociology #gender #sexuality
Musings about Gender and Sexuality with SugarAndPoison | Podcast Episode on RSS.com
Building on a previous episode about sexuality and gender (with Doug Robinson), this episode explores more ideas and themes around this weird and complicated topic. This breakdown includes things like...
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · May 16
Ugh the total mindfuck of getting turned on reading my erotica while experiencing the absolute boner killer of having to cut words from it to meet the editorial requirements #writerlife #erotica
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · May 7
New podcast episode is up! Chapter 1 of my book Violated

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Violated: Sexual Consent and Assault in the 21st Century, Chapter 1 | Podcast Episode on RSS.com
In this episode, Julie reads the first chapter of her book, Violated: Sexual Consent and Assault in the 21st Century. Next month, she will have two episodes with her co-author Remy Green discussing th...
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Apr 29
Super mega theater nerd waiting around outside for like 20 minutes so I could video a few seconds of wild Broadway history in the making. Here's Tom Francis as Joe Gillis in this incredible production of Sunset Blvd. (sound on to hear the faintest sounds of singing)
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Apr 29
Any other theater nerds notice that it seems like Sunset Blvd's car has left the theater and driven across the street to Gypsy?
(okay but seriously, both productions are incredible, go see them right now) #broadway #sunsetblvd #gypsymusical
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Apr 23
New podcast episode is up! Group sex--with Doug Robinson
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Group Sex!--with Doug Robinson | Podcast Episode on RSS.com
In this episode, Julie and her friend Doug Robinson chat about some of the things they love about group sex (threesomes, foursomes, and moresomes). Whether it's enjoying the freedom that comes with em...
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Apr 14
When you nervously stand up in front of a room full of your peers and proclaim "this theory we've all been using" (minority stress theory) just isn't backed up by the data" and you expect lots of people to say "fuck you" and instead a lot of them are like "yeah!"
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Apr 10
New podcast episode is up! The BDSM/Polyamory and Neurodivergence Overlap
The BDSM/Polyamory and Neurodivergence Overlap
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Apr 8
Him: "what do you mean I haven't resorted to crime yet? Crime was Plan A, but had to resort to work."
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Julie Fennell/IPCookieMonster @slutphd.bsky.social · Apr 8
The phrase "be gay, do crime" implies the corollary "be straight, do work"
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