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Rila
@rilaraven.bsky.social
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🔞🏳️‍⚧️ (She/Her or Big Sis if you like💜)A Shadar-kai descendant of the Raven Queen. Writer, science literacy advocate, streaming on Twitch. Mama: laapplepie.bsky.social Logo: mikalogo rilaraven.carrd.co
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Ya girl finally got a reference sheet. Thanks to my wonderful wives and @laapplepie.bsky.social who absolutely cooked.
I cannot take injections or pills due to my age and history of high blood pressure so I'm gonna stay with my patches or "tit sticks" as i call them. No real point in transitioning if I have a stroke while doing it. Nice to know a random part of the community hates that decision though 🤣🤣
I have found that writing streams are good ways to stay motivated and chill with friends/community. With things like loficity chat doesnt have to stare at a document the whole time if you prefer that. Hope to see you in the writing category sometime💜
awww hell na. The Coven comin to save mama 😜🤣. Unless we caused this then... oops.
I've achieved a few goals in my life but this is the only one I've doubled up on.
I just realized the month is almost over and I didn't make a happy pride post so here goes nothin. Happy Pride peeps. Your existence is the best victory you could have. Instead of posting all the different flags, this is one i created that encapsulates my identities as a polyamorous trans lesbian.
As the 4th of July gets closer in the US please check who you are using fireworks around. I used to get yard signs from the local VA warning the neighborhood that I dont do well with explosions but they dont give those out anymore around here. Please be aware your fun might just be someones hell.
I find myself in an interesting intersection. I really want to be able to wear the clothes I want. But I also dont want to be that mom that seems to be trying to dress like her teenage daughter. Like my daughter doesnt have a "style" yet, she finds clothes boring, but I still have this inborn fear.
I think thats everything really.
Been out for a bit. Haven't felt stable but I am going to try streaming again this week. Also what have I missed? Happy Pride. Punch Nazis. Ask experts before having opinions. 6 x/y combinations, Punch Nazis, 3 sexes not guaranteed by x/y combos, infinite genders. Punch Nazis one more time. 💜
Im well aware I won't ever be hot. But I am looking forward to not being a dumpster fire.
I know I haven't been streaming regularly lately so sorry about that. These next 2 weeks will probably be more of the same as this is a really hard time of the year for me. I'll be around when I'm feeling stable enough to be social.💜
I normally don't like receiving things from others but the lovely wives of mine have helped me improve, also the world is... yeah so every bit helps. If you want to show support without Twitch taking a cut there is now a Kofi for donations. Please take care of yourselves first. ko-fi.com/rilaraven
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It's good to know that not only do i need my name change, and all id documents updated. Which will already cost 500-1000 usd to have a shot of getting back into the US after visiting wives but now I also need a burner cell too. 6 months from now I'll need a donkey and 5 dubloons on top of that.
I learned NaNoWriMo is officially dead as they filed bankruptcy. While i wont give my opinion as I know the writing and vtuber communities operate in much the same way. I will say that I am sad to see it go as it did inspire many, including myself, to try something they didnt think they could do.
International Trans Day of Visibility💜🏳️‍⚧️
Does everyone have thier high visibility jackets ready for Monday? I'm grabbing mine from storage tonight so I just wanted to make sure yall were ready too.
I find irony that the talking point about trans people not being fit for service exist. Its precisely the confidence instilled in me as a US Marine that allowed me to face the constant discomfort and unhappiness I was feeling. Here I am about 3 years later, with boobs and 2 beautiful wives.
we are required to be at war with stereotypes, hatred, bigots, laws, and even our own selves. One day we will be able to simply exist with no need to be warriors as we have throughout history. Until then stay strong, your existance is a victory, and you are not alone.💜🏳️‍⚧️💜🫂
A judge has ruled that trans servicemembers can continue to serve. Which is as it should be but a line really stood out to me "transgender persons can have the warrior ethos".
I would argue that we are warriors already. By the very nature of our existance in this world and these societies...
The wives have informed me it is my Phoenix Day. While I don't normally celebrate things pertaining to me I also think it is important to recognize little victories at this point in history. So heres to one year of successful hrt.
Ya girl finally got a reference sheet. Thanks to my wonderful wives and @laapplepie.bsky.social who absolutely cooked.
At this point if you are ever questioned about the specifics of people around you and your response is anything other than "There is no *insert minority* in Ba Sing Se" you are part of the problem.
Estrogen is wild with the emotional swings this week. Yesterday I was kinda a mopey mess for a while there and today I have a feral desire to use both my wives as experimental subjects to prove that I could, in fact, impregnate a transfem. And the entire time ive been craving cold cans of beefaroni.