Cranky McCrankymom
@marag.bsky.social
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Work-at-home mom, SF/fantasy geek, Jewish atheist, organizer for social justice, volunteer with JUFJ/HJM/MCJC... (views are my own!), co-host of the Toku Ladies Podcast, etc. I contain multitudes, yo. Cis, not entirely het. Pronouns: she/her.
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marag.bsky.social
Welcome to friends old and new! What you will find here:
1) Local politics (MoCo MD)
2) My kids (biological and not) being awesome
3) National politics
4) Costumed Japanese superheroes
5) Thai, Taiwanese, Chinese, Japanese BL
6) Jewish stuff
7) Other social justice/community organizing
marag.bsky.social
Ah yes, the old "if you don't show pain on your face like a white dude, you're clearly not in pain" trick. Strange that women have been taught that we're not allowed to show our pain because then we're being too emotional or whatever. Almost like we can't win...
annabookwriter.bsky.social
All of this to avoid giving drugs to the “wrong” people.

This is just going to reinforce bias over and over, meaning white men will be adjudged worthy and the rest of us will have to hear all about the “objective” machine.
hypervisible.blacksky.app
Facial expressions common to all humans! 🙃
marag.bsky.social
If you'd asked kid Mara if I wanted to live above a library, I'd have screamed with joy. My parents didn't actively try to make me anti-racist, but I went to a fairly integrated school and they would have disapproved of any outright racism. It was just *normal* to have diff people around.
marag.bsky.social
Which is to say, yes, this is 100% giving "we'd rather have no public [pools/libraries/whatever good thing] than let our Black neighbors benefit from them" and OMG IT MAKES ME SO MAD.
marag.bsky.social
I turned to my kids when this idea first came up. "Hey, would y'all like to live above a library?" Their eyes got big and you could almost see hearts circling their heads.

Saying "Black or Hispanic people might live there" would not change their minds. Because I didn't raise no goddamned racists.
marag.bsky.social
::shudders:: Congrats on your restraint. I know how difficult that is.
marag.bsky.social
I've put a reminder on my phone, so we'll see how that goes. ::throws hands in the air:: I know, it's not fair for me to be annoyed they didn't want the message a week early, but I'm not feeling fair today.
marag.bsky.social
Good news: It worked! I've renewed my driver's license and didn't have to go to a doctor!

Bad news: I let Barak's school know that he would be leaving for an appt on Tuesday, but they replied I should only send it the day before. But then they get annoyed when I forget ::facepalm::
marag.bsky.social
The MVA website says I can just get my eyes checked at their office when I go to renew my driver's license. Wanna bet the people on-site will say something different? (Sucker bet, that's usually how it works.)

But Mara, why did you wait until 3 weeks before your license expires? Shut up ::glares::
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elienyc.bsky.social
Not that anybody comes to me for Maine politics, but the fact that the Democrats successfully convinced a 77yo Governor to primary the 41yo progressive, is today's example of why the Democrats fucking stay failing.

Susan Collins is 72 and if Schumer gets his way, she'll be the YOUNGER choice!
marag.bsky.social
Yes, "inherently racist people whose entire policy platform is super racist and horrible say racist and horrible things" isn't exactly a news flash.
marag.bsky.social
OH YES. I won't click on any of the ones about the University Boulevard plan, because blurg.

I've very briefly been in a wheelchair and I pushed a stroller for years and as I navigate cracked sidewalks that have poles sticking out of the middle of them, etc., I think about those populations.
marag.bsky.social
::inarticulate screams of rage::
marag.bsky.social
HFS, there was an accident that closed most of SB I-270 at 370 *and* an accident that closed part of the Beltway Inner Loop and part of the Outer Loop near Connecticut Ave o_O

I'm frequently grateful I don't commute, but today I'm extra grateful. Wow.
marag.bsky.social
Of course there's already someone who has retained an attorney ::eyeroll:: I can't imagine this being a winning lawsuit. How *dare* the county use their legal right-of-way to implement a public good like safer pedestrian and bikeways, plus add public transportation! Terrible! ::snort::
marag.bsky.social
Call me a glutton for punishment...I replied to a ND post freaking out over the bus rapid transit work starting on Viers Mill. Now waiting for the people complaining housing prices will go up, others complaining housing prices will go down, and a lot of people who don't know what a right-of-way is.
marag.bsky.social
So many things people complain about us spending money on are actually money-savers. (See: vaccines abroad, housing first in the US...)

Like, even if I can't get y'all to care about other human beings, can we at least do the thing because it will a) save your life, b) save you money, or c) both?
marag.bsky.social
Yes! I believe that raising antifascist kids and pushing against fascism among their friends and in their schools is underrated. We can't solve all the world's problems, but we can push back. And at least we know we haven't made the world *worse*.
marag.bsky.social
I volunteer as an advocate for more affordable housing, eviction prevention funding, and other measures to help the homeless and rent burdened in my county and state. I write testimony, show up to meetings, rally, write letters/emails...etc.
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mskellymhayes.bsky.social
My latest is the story of how my community has rallied to protect and defend our neighbors in recent days, as ICE has targeted the Rogers Park neighborhood in Chicago. "This is not a story about a moment of victory, but a moment of being reminded of our power."
They Came for Our Neighbors. We Showed Up.
Before long, there were dozens, and then hundreds of people in the streets, watching and responding.
organizingmythoughts.org
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murderbotbot.bsky.social
Why the hell does everything have to happen at once?
marag.bsky.social
I'm crying. I wasn't sure any of them would survive. It's still a giant mess but at least they are home.
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waltydunlop.bsky.social
Job occupations, from an 1881 census. Every one of these sounds like something a sorely provoked Captain Haddock would should at someone in times of heavy stress.
marag.bsky.social
Seriously. There are certain people who I wouldn't mess around with on here, like menswear guy or AOC.
marag.bsky.social
Bwahahaha! Yes, terrifying!