Joseph the Gray
@josephthegray.bsky.social
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Really have to listen to my body, I thought I did and my body said sit your ass down. I’m learning more patience for myself and having to reinforce that healing takes time 🫂🩵
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I’m strong, but not Superman—
just human. Wish I was invincible somedays, the more I survive the more I realize how fragile we all really are. Now it is time for me to be kind to my mind and spine and send positive energy through out my body.

#BrainTumor #BPD #Autism #ADHD #ChronicPain #Recovery
Pushed too hard today—sciatica’s flaring again.

Weeks in a hospital and bed really mess with your spine.
Call me Domino, ‘cause something’s always knocking me down…and I keep getting back up. 🩵

Movement and working out saved me from myself. And imma keep playing till I’m told I can’t anymore 🤘
Sharing with strangers online has become a spell of healing. 🩵🏳️‍🌈
There’s power in being raw, messy, and real. So thank you, dudes

To the kind & empathetic ones—forehead kisses from a wizard’s staff. 🧚🏼‍♂️✨

Do no harm, take no shit, and yes… red hats are banned from this enchantment. 🫰
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#nokings
To those who celebrate
stay true,
steady the current.
We can make it out of this.

Always keep hope.

Empathy is our way through.
It’s both intelligence and human nature.

From empathy, honest communication, logic, and creativity — comes strength and innovation.

Onward, hazahhhh 🗡️🧚🏼‍♂️🩵
And don’t get me started on teen titans 👉👈 adding to my list. Anyone else got ideas of defining cinema?

Cloud Atlas, The Help, Pans Labyrinth, Witcher are on my current rewatch list and I have 6 more weeks off for recovery. Ideas are welcome 🧚🏻‍♂️* Ty
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Go the distance, dudes ⚡️💪

(Inspired by a rewatch)

Been healing rewatching defining cinema while I heal from brain surgery MiG HT do V for Vendetta next

This is when my hero complex started, this, Power Rangers, Captain Planet, Ferngully, and Smallville are to blame hehe 🤼🩵🫂
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I forgot what it felt like to not have pain every day 🥹

I’m simply grateful to still be here, to breathe, and to let my words spill into the void that somehow listens back. Vulnerability is a portal into us. A way to be true

Appreciate you nerds 🧚🏼‍♂️🤪🫂🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

#braintumorawareness #lgbt #grateful #queer
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Thanks to everyone who’s let my words run over—who’s listened, even when it was messy or raw.
Writing is how I process—between brain surgery, heartbreaks, and breakthroughs.

I’ve survived something that literally tried to kill me… and my chronic headaches are gone.
As many times over
as I have to.

That’s the true, true.

Always and forever,

—Joe 🧚🏻‍♂️🩵🤼🫂
Not to close myself off,
but to absorb the world differently.

To be less harsh and more kind with my becoming,
yet firm in my boundaries.

To protect what is sacred
with softness,
and with truth.

That—
is the way.

And I will find it.
Just like my magic,
I will find me again.
Even if only one leaf remains,
that is enough.
For in the rubble,
I feel seeds begging to grow.

And today that has to be enough…
to keep becoming.

This time, I’ll be more whole,
more knowing.
I dig deep…
into the roots.

What I thought was connection,
an answer to a dream,
was instead rot.
A mirror to my own wound of neglect. My past.
Trauma.
Abuse.
Grief.

Yet here I am, not fully broken.
Still growing.
Still alive. 🌱
I always get nostalgic this time of year.

Nostalgia is the thread I follow
the way I time travel through memory to rewire and repair my nerves.
I use movies as portals to the past.

Tonight, I’m watching
The Craft and garden hehe 🤪
gonna travel my psyche, brb 🧚🏼‍♂️

My kind of Friday night in October.
Mmm. Would love to watch you take it
That digimon tat is so sick, dude 🤘💪🩵🤪
I visualize this battle often —
against my inner demons,
when I must muster courage
and kindness for my little inner self.

That’s who we do this for.

I find peace and confidence knowing I’ll never abandon myself again.

Not again.
Not ever. 🧚🏻‍♂️✨
I play in sunlight and moonlight
you hide in shadow.

We are not the same.

We all carry light, but it’s what we do with that spark that matters.

(Cue Gandalf fighting his inner Balrog.
Hero-complex? Absolutely. Worth it? Every time.) ⚔️🧙🏻‍♂️✨
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This one’s still one of my favorite #fcf from this year.

You should see the video… might upload to OF soon. I don’t think my ex’s should be the only one with those videos

The load and verbal is art and i believe sharing is how we heal this world.

Hope you release what doesn’t help you grow 🤼🫂✨
I meant to say we got the 3 B’s 🐝

I love when my perfectionism gets tested…

I still overthink, and honestly, I’ve been overthinking this post for weeks.

But we learn to close our own loops.
This is me writing it out of my system.
Words have power.

Ty for the love 🤪

#human #fcf
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Some of my favorites #fcf #knighthood + we got the three b here so blow it up 🤪

#belly
#bonner
#book

I get hard for an alliteration and what could be better than those B’s? 🧚🏼‍♂️ boop *

and yes I do that * with my wand, just need a cute nose or forehead hehe

Xoxo —
Jospeh the Gray 🤼💜