Fernando Gros
@fernandogros.com
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Writer Granta Memoir Workshop alumni Shortlisted for The Deep Creek Residency Fellowship Lived in 🇨🇱🇦🇺🇬🇧🇮🇳🇭🇰🇸🇬🇯🇵 Worked in academia and music TCK https://fernandogros.com/blog/ Made in Chile, grown in Australia, polished in Japan
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So when the dudes all became obsessed with the Roman Empire it was really the protein powders doing the talking.
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I framed this as a task for parents because that's how I've been thinking about it.

But maybe it's a task for everyone? Maybe it's how we should be approaching civics and the job of thinking about culture?
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As I get older I feel like the work of mid-life, as a parent, is understanding the shadow cast by the decisions of your own parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents. Along with the pain they suffered through. And not casting that onto your children, and the generations that will follow.
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As I get older I feel like the work of mid-life, as a parent, is understanding the shadow cast by the decisions of your own parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents. Along with the pain they suffered through. And not casting that onto your children, and the generations that will follow.
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Since coming back I've wondered if Australia was still a test market for political ideas. I always held the view the Hawke-Keating government was a dress rehearsal for ideas that animated the Clinton and Blair governments for example.
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My guess is something very different was happening when I tried to translate stories in my head while writing in English versus writing them out as I heard them in Spanish and then slowly translating that and making more considered choices.
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I'm on a list for having opinions on AI. I'm also on a list for following right wing accounts I don't follow. Block lists are probably the silliest feature on Bluesky and not worth taking seriously.
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My sourdough starter has come back to life. When things got overwhelming in April I put it to sleep in the fridge. I took it out yesterday and it smelt like New York in July. But a single 1:1:1 feed last night and it bloomed back into life and now smells like life.
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The memoir I've been writing has five sections. And for a long time I struggled with the middle section. It relates to my mother's life before I was born. Something was missing. So I completely rewrote it. In Spanish. Then translated that back into English. It works so much better now.
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That would require explaining things. So no.
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I'm curious about his academic record. I often see people say he has a Bachelor in Philosophy. I think they mean a BA with a Major. But then, how many advanced courses did he take? And he "studied" with Girard. Or attended one lecture. I've read both.

Also, he advises people to skip university.
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Today's Japanese lesson was a delight. Nice to feel progress in building sentences and understanding grammar points. I feel like I am progressing with the work rather than just struggling to keep up. Which is true in a lot of areas of life at the moment. It was a rough middle of the year for me.
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The moral of this essay appears to be that we'll build better societies if we give up on nutritious shared family meals and just eat cereal while watching TV show reruns instead.
Opinion | Why I Had to Kill Family Dinner
www.nytimes.com
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It's cheaper to film them that way.
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From afar it looks like turning away from the future. Is it like that?
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Did you see the honest government ad for NZ? Not exactly a horror show but still pretty scary.
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I write as a way to remember. I also write as a way to forget. This is a tension I have no interest in resolving.
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My first thought was to rewatch this film. Partly because no one talks about it anymore. Will watch tonight.
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The 2022 Gawker article on being able to mute America on the internet is doing the rounds again today.
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The internet is the Forest.

The non-Forest is the rest of culturally mainstream IRL life.
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I haven't written about the dark forest idea. The way I've understand it (with reference to Liu Cixin's novel) is the people that used to make the internet vibrant now hide "in the forest" out of fear of being attacked by the trending topic vigilantes on social media.
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I like Finnish TV and Films. But I was under the impression it's a hard language to learn.
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Yes, I also block time every quarter to go through everything and all my commitments. At the moment a day is enough. I tried to do those reviews monthly. But it felt like they were coming at me too often. Quarterly is a good rhythm.
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Nice selection. Let me know if they find that soul.
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I recently listened to an interview with Olga Ravn on the Between the Covers podcast and it was an amazing conversation. Her work also popped up on a private writers group I'm part of. I feel like the universe is pointing me in the direction of her work.