What happens when surrender becomes sacred? When boundaries are not barriers—but bridges to deeper intimacy? Meet one of the most influential voices in modern kink culture. Janet Hardy is today’s guest. She’s the co-author of the revolutionary The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures and Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence … to name just two of her books. She has a wealth of knowledge and experience.  Listeners of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast, sent in a lot of questions and inspired this intimate conversation. Topics include: The intersections of power, pain, love and liberation. Myths and fears about ethical non-monogamy in kink spaces. Details about the new Workbook for The Ethical Slut. When Janet shares about how real change begins with honest self-inquiry, not permission from others, all three women talk about claiming their own personal erotic power. What does it mean to really choose who you are in your relationships? And, what is beyond tolerating a relationship. Hint: it’s not always easy or safe to open up to this view of love and pleasure.  Janet talks about building emotional resilience when having these vulnerable conversations. You’ll hear Mistress Olivia’s personal reflection on how Radical Ecstasy transformed her understanding of Dominance and submission — not as control, but as co-created surrender. “Pain is not the goal. Surrender is.” That one line shifted everything. Together, they explore how power exchange is one of the most intimate acts we’re capable of — a dance where trust becomes tangible, and vulnerability becomes strength. We also tackle real listener questions: - A trans woman shares her experience of feeling Dominant with male partners and submissive with female ones — is this a known dynamic? Janet offers thoughtful insight into gendered power dynamics and erotic archetypes. - For the nervous beginner — especially the "vanilla wife" being asked to step into Dominance — what are the real fears women face? Spoiler: It’s not about lack of interest. It’s about responsibility, judgment, and the weight of expectation. - And then… the eternal debate: Who’s really in control — the Domme or the sub? Janet’s answer may surprise you. (Hint: It’s not a power struggle — it’s a paradox.) Finally, for those walking the spiritual edge of kink, we explore how to distinguish emotional overwhelm from authentic spiritual surrender — because not every tear in a scene is transcendence. Some are signals. Learning the difference? That’s where true mastery begins. This episode isn’t just for kinksters. It’s for anyone who’s ever loved deeply, feared openly, or longed to be seen. It’s about coming into power — not over others, but within yourself. https://janetwhardyauthor.com/ https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Third-Practical-Relationships/dp/0399579664/ref=sr_1_3?crid=23M1L2O7GKQEX&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.B-J4yi5pESx_gA_vpmKW2Ga-fN40hiVcnsrOGC4WAHFicW5YXeXHCp382bT-my_wVZGt-K5vvTudVDY1y20vvYjRt6AjL3M0cBDc87t1RpXrU6if02vhNqKwm19eXUQm6VtXeEPV_iiEKpSsVjWJd_yH0J8IlWpZVItY7cf9Dh5QTBNeAYOBgI0_Lsp0uDChNRrMGHEzNyxri8bjy3yTyZArsjUUESN4AbbsGqn-nJ8.QhT2dNtxstdttkQLJx4SwB31OvbB5uVjPv_-USRnCfQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=janet+Hardy+books&qid=1761434145&sprefix=janet+hardy+books%2Caps%2C124&sr=8-3 https://www.amazon.com/Radical-Ecstasy-Dossie-Easton-ebook/dp/B005HZ6F5M/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0 Mistress Olivia’s blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ [email protected] Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ [email protected] DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Today’s episode is an intimate dive into one of the most misunderstood — yet deeply rewarding — dynamics in the world of Femdom and distance domination: t

Today’s episode is an intimate dive into one of the most misunderstood — yet deeply rewarding — dynamics in the world of Femdom and distance domination: the submissive sissy. Spoiler: It’s not just about lace, lipstick, or humiliation. It’s about surrender, self-discovery, and the quiet power found in your devotion to your Mistress. Have you ever asked yourself: “Why do I feel drawn to this role?” “Is wanting to serve a woman… weak?” “How do I truly become the sissy my Mistress deserves?” …then this episode is your permission slip to lean in. What We Explore: - Why not all sissies are submissive — and not all submissives are sissies - The emotional and psychological journey of embracing feminization - How a true Femdom Mistress guides, shapes, and transforms her sissy - The paradox of control: giving up power to gain freedom - The sacred art of being of service — beyond just sex or chores - Why communication is the most important part of a D/s relationship - Navigating boundaries, vulnerability, and trust in a D/s dynamic - The myth of “more is better” — and why following her lead beats initiative every time - And the big one: How submission changes you… and how the submissive also changes Mistress. Remember, it's not about escaping who you are — it’s about uncovering who you were meant to be under the gaze of a woman who sees you, owns you, and refines you. A skilled Femdom Mistress doesn’t just dominate — she mentors. She holds space for your fears, your shame, and your curiosity. Above all, she rewrites your future whether you are: - New to sissy training - Stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage or secret shame - Or already serving but craving deeper connection and purpose …this episode will remind you: You’re not broken. You’re becoming. Get in touch: Mistress Olivia:  email:  [email protected] Discord: LDWOlivia Twitter X: @MistressOlivia1 blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: email:  [email protected] Discord: LDWErika Twitter X: @ErikaEnchantrix blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika crack open the candy bowl of taboo for this episode which is inspired by a listener question. Jen Jenn asks about sissy costume sug

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika crack open the candy bowl of taboo for this episode which is inspired by a listener question. Jen Jenn asks about sissy costume suggestions for Halloween and your Femdom hosts decide to talk about all sorts of fun, festive and naughty costumes. First though, we go off on safari about CANDY CORN.  This is the perfect holiday for feminization in public. We give some specific ideas how you can be femme and get away with your sissy play at a Halloween party. Costume ideas for sissies: a Hooters Girl slutty costumes comics cosplay and more. Speaking of cosplay, a perfect blend of feminization and humiliation bondage could be a Harley Quinn costume with literal restraints! Hear what each Mistress is thinking about for her Halloween costume. We also talk about blending BDSM, kink and creativity for this fun holiday. Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ [email protected] Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ [email protected] DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Available for phone or texting sessions 800-356-6169 

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika crack open the candy bowl of taboo for this episode inspired by a listener question. Jen Jenn asks about sissy costume suggestions for Halloween and your Femdom hosts decide to talk about all sorts of fun, festive and naughty costumes. (Including sissy costume ideas). First though, we go off on safari about CANDY CORN.  Costume ideas for sissies: a Hooters Girl, slutty costumes, comics cosplay, and more.Speaking of cosplay, a perfect blend of feminization and humiliation bondage could be a Harley Quinn costume with literal restraints! Costume ideas that hint at Femdom, kink or female led relationshiips: knee pads while wearing a tux. collar and leash DIY costumes that might or might not hint at kink, BDSM or power exchange relationships. Hear what each Mistress is thinking about for her Halloween costume. We also talk about blending BDSM, kink and creativity for this fun holiday. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress [email protected] Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy [email protected] DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine, hosts of the new podcast FILTHY MILFS return to have a candid conversation about sex, foreplay, power exchange, kink and more. If you’ve ever seen a group of women having a fun, lively conversation and wondered what they’re talking about then you’re in luck. This is like we’re all sitting around with cocktails and dishing about: Blow Jobs How to make cum taste good Reaction of women to sucking cock Snowballing and cum eating Sharing erotic fantasies with your partner Intimacy and great sex Sexual wellness Aging and keeping sex juicy and exciting Normalizing the conversation around all aspects of sex Being open minded about different kinds of erotic pleasure Swingers lifestyle Taking viagra for phone sex sessions Sex work and sex workers Luxury lingerie and why it's so fun to dress up. Finally, we have a conversation about women and power. Could either or both of these ladies want to be a Femdom? We talk about myths and misconceptions about BDSM as well as the relaxation and release for the submissive. FILTHY MILFS podcast is available on all podcast platforms, YouTube, Instagram, Facebook and maybe even Linkedin. Here’s the link to https://open.spotify.com/show/7dkPyPi2qAOO7fo8o402nb Mistress Olivia’s blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ [email protected] Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ [email protected] DISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Listen to episodes and learn more about FILTHY MILFS. A completely uncensored, outspoken, dirty-minded, and eye-opening (among other things) look into the world of sexual wellness from the most adventurous milfs around, Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine. From ways to spice up your sex life at any age to insightful wellness tips to keep you feeling happy, healthy, and hot in and out of the bedroom, Ellen and Sophie have got you covered. They're filthy. They're milfy. And they're your new favorite show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

They say they’re FILTHY and MILFY and this is a new podcast you will thoroughly enjoy! Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine are the FILTHY MILFS. Sophie says, “We’re just a couple of randy, curious, highly intelligent horn dogs.”  What a fun conversation! Topics include: The power of female sexuality Embracing the SLUT label Social standards for the sexual behavior of women Self empowerment that comes with BDSM, kink, Femdom, and sex work. Sexual pleasure and aging Exploring the popularity of MILFS Sexually experienced women and confidence. What did family and friends think of the name of the podcast? Join us for this uncensored and intimate conversation with the FILTHY MILFS. Look for the FILTHY MILFS podcast on all the podcast platforms and Youtube! Here’s the https://open.spotify.com/show/7dkPyPi2qAOO7fo8o402nb Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ [email protected] Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ [email protected] DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

What is rough kink or BDSM pain play? What makes that different from other kinds of rough sex?  Why does a Femdom enjoy delivering pain? This episode explores pleasure and pain to answer listener questions about BDSM. Topics include: What is rough kink in the framework of BDSM pain play? How rough does it need to be to be considered BDSM? Who gets to define it? What are some of the items used in rough kink? Does someone need a spanking or CBT to be considered pain play? How do you know you’re ready to explore rough kink? How do you communicate with your partner? The role of BDSM negotiation in safe scenes. What is a safe word and how does it apply in BDSM? How does a Mistress gauge when to push your boundaries? What sorts of questions should a Dominatrix ask you before pain play? BDSM terms: SSC: safe, sane and consensual RACK: risk-aware consensual kink PRICK:  personal responsibility, informed, consensual kink or personally responsible in consensual kink. AndThe 4 C’s:  caring, communication consent and caution. The importance of aftercare for the submissive and the Mistress. Personal stories, behind the scenes of Distance Domination, and more. You never know what you’ll hear and we appreciate you enjoying the podcast! Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ https://discord.com/:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

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Popular adult entertainer with multiple accolades from AVN, XBIZ and Transgender Erotica Awards (just to name a few) returns to the podcast to talk about the porn industry, changes in the adult industry and being in control of her career. Topics include: Why being a porn star used to be more glamorous. The role of Only Fans in changing the porn industry. How Only Fans allows adult entertainers to connect directly with fans. Creating custom adult content on demand. Being a trans woman in the adult industry: Exploring sex, sexuality and a variety of partners Dating while being in the adult industry Objectification as a trans woman Objectification as a sex worker Coming out to her conservative family Being a business woman: Ways in which the adult industry allows for financial freedom Why working for a porn studio is often not worth it Being part of the all trans cast of the Lily Wachowski’s sci fi film D.O.L.L.S This conversation is a thoughtful peek behind the scenes of porn, the adult industry, stigma and sex work. Listener questions inspired many of the topics in this interview. Here’s to all of us living life without regrets! Eva Maxim’s Only Fans page Twitter X: @Eva_Maxim        https://freetour.adulttime.com/en/join (where to watch D.O.L.L.S) Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ https://discord.com/:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika