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9 Ways Sexual Abuse Shows Up in Relationships

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DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 13h

For abusers, sex isn’t about intimacy—it’s about power. They use it to dominate, coerce, cause pain, and humiliate.

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#Consent

Sexual abuse tactics are sometimes more subtle than rape and coercion. They can also look like sex that is intentionally unenjoyable for the survivor.

Are You Searching What Is Considered Domestic Violence?

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DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 17h

💜 Domestic violence is about power & control—physical, emotional, sexual, financial, verbal or spiritual—and often hides behind love-bombing and manipulation. Recognizing it is step one; healing needs support. Reach out for help now 🚨

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#NotAlone

It’s normal to hope that you’re not a victim of an abusive partner, but if your gut is leading you that way, you don’t want to ignore it.

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 21h

⚠️ Abuse can occur without drugs or alcohol — substance use isn't required for control or violence. Your experience is valid. If you're unsafe or need support, reach out to trusted people or domestic violence services. Get help now 💜

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#Question

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 23h

🌟 Megan survived the unthinkable and now shares her story. This Domestic Violence Awareness Month read how she escaped abuse and found hope: buff.ly/NLG8thn 💜 Read & share.

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#DVAM

Reach More, Help More: Affordable Online Methods to Reach Domestic Violence Survivors and Donors

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 1d

🌐 A strong web presence helps domestic violence orgs reach younger survivors who prefer text, attract donors, and boost engagement. Learn SEO, free/low-cost tools, and practical tips. 💜

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#SafeWeb

Learn from this expert-led webinar on how nonprofit organizations can improve their digital reach, online marketing efforts, and find practical, affordable methods of standing out on the web.

Domestic Violence Podcasts

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 1d

🎙️ Survivor-made podcast on healing and reinvention after abuse — Mickie Zada interviews people who rebuilt their lives from the inside out. Listen now and share to uplift survivors 💜

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#Reinvent

Check out these domestic violence podcasts that cover a wide range of topics

Are You Searching What Is Considered Domestic Violence?

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DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 2d

🔍 Domestic abuse is about power, not love. It can be physical, emotional, sexual, financial or spiritual and often hides behind love‑bombing, manipulation or trauma bonding. Leaving is hard; healing needs support. Reach out 💜

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#NotAlone

It’s normal to hope that you’re not a victim of an abusive partner, but if your gut is leading you that way, you don’t want to ignore it.

Domestic Violence Headlines for the Week of Oct. 6

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 3d

Domestic Violence Headlines, Week of Oct. 6:
💔 RH husband pleads not guilty after tracking wife
💔 CO teen killed by boyfriend
💔 Denver cop fired for asking out DV victim
💜 4-year-old honored in Baltimore center

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#EndDV

A "Real Housewives" cast member's husband is arrested for putting a tracker on her car without consent, and other men behaving badly.

Where to Report Domestic Abuse: Jurisdiction Guide

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 3d

🛟 Domestic violence survivors can seek help from the courts. Jurisdiction decides which court for a protective order or reporting an abuser. If you’re in immediate danger, call 911. For filing a police report, start here 💜

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#Jurisdiction

Navigate the complexities of reporting domestic abuse with our jurisdiction guide. Learn where to seek justice and protection.

Michigan Domestic Violence Help, Programs and Statistics

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 4d

🔎 Find how many domestic violence organizations in Michigan provide emergency services — crucial info for survivors and supporters. Read the report and share to raise awareness. 💜

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#Michigan

Find help and statistics for Michigan`s 73 domestic violence programs located in 53 cities that provide help for dealing with domestic abuse.

Ask Amanda: Can I Lose My Children If I Go to a Domestic Violence Shelter?

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DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 4d

🚨 Survivor fears the abuser will weaponize the shelter, but staying alive is the top priority. If you or someone you know needs help, reach out now. 💜 Share safety resources and support.

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#Escape

A survivor is worried that fleeing to a domestic violence shelter with her children will mean her abusive husband can use it against her later in court.

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 4d

🚀 She took a leap and built her wings on the way down — proof courage grows in motion. Ready to fly? Take the leap today. 💜

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#WingLeap

It's Post-Separation Legal Abuse, Not High-Conflict Divorce

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 5d

⚖️ Courts often call abusers' repeated lawsuits 'high-conflict'—blaming the couple instead of one party abusing the system to keep harming an ex. Judges must identify legal harassment and protect survivors. Act now 💜

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#OneSided

High-conflict divorces is a fancy way to say an abuser is using the legal system to control a victim.

Where to Report Domestic Abuse: Jurisdiction Guide

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 5d

🌍 Unsure where to report abuse? This jurisdiction guide helps you find the right path and authorities. Read the guide and report safely today 💜

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#DVLaw

Navigate the complexities of reporting domestic abuse with our jurisdiction guide. Learn where to seek justice and protection.

Michigan Domestic Violence Help, Programs and Statistics

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 5d

📣 A look at Michigan domestic violence facts and figures—this affects neighbors, families, workplaces. Break the silence: support survivors, share resources, and reach out if you need help. Act now. 💜

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#Michigan

Find help and statistics for Michigan`s 73 domestic violence programs located in 53 cities that provide help for dealing with domestic abuse.

Ask Amanda: Can I Lose My Children If I Go to a Domestic Violence Shelter?

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 5d

🛡️ Seeking safety at a shelter shows strength, not weakness. Courts recognize protecting children from abuse as responsible parenting. Your safety and your children's wellbeing matter most. Reach out to local domestic violence resources today 💜

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#SupportSurvivors

A survivor is worried that fleeing to a domestic violence shelter with her children will mean her abusive husband can use it against her later in court.

Spotlight on Shelter: A Day at SafeHouse

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 6d

🏠 What does a typical day at a domestic violence shelter look like? Safety planning, support services, and care for survivors and kids. 💜 Learn more and help raise awareness today.

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#HopeCrew

A shelter advocate talks about a typical, and hectic, day at a domestic violence shelter.

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 6d

🌿 A warm guide by a clinical psychologist: answers to common questions, survivor stories (male & female), insight into abuser behavior, and practical steps to begin recovery. Read now and take the first step toward healing 💜

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#Recovery

It's Post-Separation Legal Abuse, Not High-Conflict Divorce

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 6d

🚨 Abusers torment exes through the courts as a form of coercive control. This manipulation harms, isolates, and endangers survivors. 💜 Speak up, seek support, and report abuse to protect yourself and others. Take action today.

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#Gaslight

High-conflict divorces is a fancy way to say an abuser is using the legal system to control a victim.

Where to Report Domestic Abuse: Jurisdiction Guide

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 6d

🚨 Jurisdiction shapes where survivors can get protective orders—location of abuse, residency, and where orders were issued all matter. Cross-state or international cases add travel and complexity. Seek legal or advocacy help. 💜

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#LegalAid

Navigate the complexities of reporting domestic abuse with our jurisdiction guide. Learn where to seek justice and protection.

Michigan Domestic Violence Help, Programs and Statistics

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DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 7d

📍 Need help in Michigan? Find local domestic violence programs and confidential support. 💜 Reach out for resources and safety planning — learn more now 📞

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#Michigan

Find help and statistics for Michigan`s 73 domestic violence programs located in 53 cities that provide help for dealing with domestic abuse.

Ask Amanda: Can I Lose My Children If I Go to a Domestic Violence Shelter?

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 7d

💜 Your safety and your children's lives come first. A domestic violence shelter can help you stay alive and protected. Threats of homicide must be taken seriously—reach out to a shelter or emergency services today. 🏠

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#Escape

A survivor is worried that fleeing to a domestic violence shelter with her children will mean her abusive husband can use it against her later in court.

Spotlight on Shelter: A Day at SafeHouse

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 7d

🌟 What does safety look like? For many, a locked door and a plan; for survivors, safety is hard-won and may start in unlikely places. At SafeHouse I learned from staff and residents about healing. Share to support safe spaces💜

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#CareHope

A shelter advocate talks about a typical, and hectic, day at a domestic violence shelter.

DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · 7d

⚠️ If your partner didn't experience or witness childhood abuse, that doesn't excuse abusive behavior. Accountability and safety matter. Prioritize your safety—reach out for support. 💜

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#ChildAB