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Love and Reality Check

@beautyicon01.bsky.social

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Through honest conversations and practical advice, I’ll bridge the gap between ideals & real-life challenges while uncovering lessons in connection and growth about love & relationships. Relationship coach|| Chelsea fan|| PayPal ID: [email protected]

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Pammy ✨️ @pammyds.bsky.social · Jan 10

Having an emotionally mature partner is top-tier. You're able to express yourself freely and openly. They don’t insult you, they don't give you the silent treatment, they don't become aggressive or manipulative. They listen, they respond — they gently hold a safe space for you.

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Rhonda 🩵🦋 @rhondasrealm.bsky.social · Nov 14

I used to tolerate a lot because I didn’t want to lose people.

Now I establish boundaries because I don’t want to lose myself.

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Rhonda 🩵🦋 @rhondasrealm.bsky.social · Jan 5

In a world where you can be anything…

Be kind!

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Hannah Who @notablyuncool.bsky.social · Jan 4

Shout out today and every day to those trans people who transitioned later in life!

You’re a huge inspiration and show us all what’s still possible.

🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

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Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

Men,

Never ignore that feeling that tells you to pray.

You have the power to save yourself from a lot of things.

Trust me!

#MasculinitySaturday

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

If she has slept with someone,

She can sleep with him again.

You can't ignore her past.

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

You can be lied on, talked about, plotted against and still Win.

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

you can feel when someone changing on you 💯

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

You can’t force anyone to see your worth.

If they can’t recognize a blessing, you just gotta let them miss out.

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

Don’t mess around and lose someone irreplaceable.

Once they’re gone, there’s no getting them back.

Y’all hearing me?

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

You are going to miss her when you notice nobody is like her

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

Delete her number.

Delete her messages.

Delete her pictures.

She is your X for a reason.

Never forget.

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

She may ignore you.

She may reject you.

She may ghost you.

But one day,

She will realize

She had the opportunity to be with a legend.

You are the prize.

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

If she likes you,

Everything is free.

If she doesn't,

Everything has a fee.

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

If a woman feels SAFE in her relationship she’ll act like a child.

If a woman feels UNSAFE in her relationship she’ll act like a man.

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

Goals ☺️
Dreams ☝️

God above all ✅

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

Once a woman's fallen for you she'll spoil you in gifts, fast replies, and down for sex.

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

Learn to Forgive

If someone makes a mistake, forgive them and move forward.

Holding onto anger makes doesn't help.

It infact drags your progress.

#ForgiveAndMoveOn #ClearTheAir #StrongerTogether

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

Celebrate Small Wins

When you communicate well, celebrate it!

Say, “I’m glad we talked” or “Thanks for listening.”

Appreciating the effort makes everyone feel good.

#CelebrateTalks #SayThanks #GoodCommunication

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

Be Honest Always

Tell the truth, even if it’s hard.

Honesty helps people trust you and feel safe talking to you.

A relationship built on truth is unbreakable.

#BeHonest #TruthBuildsTrust #SafeTalks

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

When you disagree,

Work together to find a solution.

It’s not about who’s right;

It’s about making things better for everyone.

#SolveTogether #TeamworkWins #BetterSolutions

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

Dear,

In places of work, in school,

With friends, family, peers;

If you don’t understand something, ask questions,

It shows you’re paying attention and care about what they’re saying.

Asking helps avoid confusion and builds trust.

#AskQuestions #StayCurious #BetterTogether

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

In a conversation, don’t talk over others.

Give everyone a chance to share their thoughts.

Taking turns shows respect and care.

Apparently school taught you this but you don't wanna practice it.

Change!

#TakeTurns #FairnessFirst #GoodTalks

Love and Reality Check @beautyicon01.bsky.social · Jan 4

How you say something matters as much as what you say.

Use kind and calm words, even when you’re upset.

A gentle tone keeps the peace.

#SpeakKindly #StayCalm #WordsMatter