Ben Darfler
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Ben Darfler
@bdarfler.com
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Engineering Leader, Father, Meditator, Elected Official, He/Him Currently, Chief of Staff at Honeycomb.io
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There is so much focus put on good KRs that I've absolutely fallen into the trap of over indexing on the KRs and ignoring the Os. This is a great reminder to ask "what 'story' the numbers will tell when we achieve them?" jeffgothelf.com/blog/okrs-wi...
OKRs without objectives are only half the story
Lots would prefer to skip objectives and head straight or the key results. This is only half the story. Here's how to get the objective into the story.
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I've been thinking a lot about how OKRs scale with a company. At some point, the style of OKRs starts to differentiate at different levels. There can no longer be a one size fits all approach. jeffgothelf.com/blog/how-to-...
How-to: At what level should I write my OKRs?
Here's how to set the proper level for your Objectives & Key Results so you can set goals your team can achieve.
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Joining my fellow Americans. #firstamendment
I wonder if you could ask it to write the code to make it happen instead of asking it to do the task directly. Not sure if it could execute the code for you (since you are on mobile) but it's usually better at writing code for deterministic work than doing it directly.
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#AIWeek continues with launch two—Anomaly Detection (now in alpha), Honeycomb’s new way to stay ahead of issues. Honeycomb learns your service patterns and gives early warnings before customers are impacted. Smarter, proactive observability starts now.

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#honeycomb #AI
Being data-driven isn't simply looking at numbers and hoping for insights. You need approaches to help interpret the data and then respond when trends shift.

Three Things You Need On Every KPI Graph www.staceybarr.com/measure-up/t...
Three Things You Need On Every KPI Graph
Do you have these 3 essential things on your KPI graphs in your dashboard? If not, you're misinterpreting your performance measure signals.
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One of the vanishingly few clear, practical, and direct treatments of how to build OKRs at the team level. Team OKRs in Action martinfowler.com/articles/tea...
Team OKRs in Action
Rather than cascade OKRs, use collaborative alignment.
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I loved o3 for web research. Recently I've been using Perplexity since they have been giving out free subscriptions.
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The more people use it -> the more feedback we get -> the better we can make it for you.
Did you wear your shoe socks?
Getting the most out of Deep Research

- Step 1: Clearly state your goal
- Step 2: Provide context
- Step 3: Specify what you want the output to look like
- Step 4: Ask for the research plan and provide feedback

www.operatorshandbook.com/p/how-to-wor...
How to work with AI: Getting the most out of Deep Research
The ultimate guide on how to use the most powerful AI feature for operators
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Using AI as a thought partner (see the post for the full prompt)
- Reason from first principles and explain the thought process
- Be specific in your critiques
- Ask for more information if you need it
- Push for clarity instead of going along with every ask
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How to work with AI: Using AI as a thought partner
Work through problems and pressure-test your reasoning with an on-demand AI sparring partner
www.operatorshandbook.com
Same. The only feature I really appreciate is that it will intercept the questions I ask Google and answer them with AI instead. The other flows I've thought of don't work. Like copy out the text from multiple emails opened in multiple tabs.
Driving AI at Work: "AI use that boosts individual performance does not naturally translate to improving organizational performance. To get organizational gains requires organizational innovation, rethinking incentives, processes, and even the nature of work."
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Making AI Work: Leadership, Lab, and Crowd
A formula for AI in companies
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I appreciate how this mirrors the problem discovery and problem selection elements of the PSHE framework which I leaned heavily on when I reworked the engineering ladder at Honeycomb.

Moving from an orchestration-heavy to leadership-heavy management role. lethain.com/orchestratio...
Moving from an orchestration-heavy to leadership-heavy management role.
For managers who have spent a long time reporting to a specific leader or working in an organization with well‑understood goals, it’s easy to develop skill gaps without realizing it. Usually this…
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This hit reading @charity.wtf's post:

> We’ve spent the past few decades ripping … down and drifting away from these communal hubs. But we haven’t stopped wanting them, or needing them. I hope, … that we are entering into a new era of rebuilding, sadder but wiser.

charity.wtf/2025/07/09/t...
Thoughts on Motivation and My 40-Year Career
I’ve never published an essay quite like this. I’ve written about my life before, reams of stuff actually, because that’s how I process what I think, but never for public consumption. I’ve been pus…
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